**dial segun’s number**** sege!!!! Abeg let’s chat.
***10 seconds later*****
SEGE: padi e, wetin happen?
ME: wahala wan shele ooo
SEGE: Bimpe matter again abi?
ME: yes
SEGE: I thought as much. I know say na one person go
kill the other between two of you. So what happened?
ME: ***** narrated everything in details*****
SEGE: wahala dey oooo
ME: so what do I do now?
SEGE: the whole thing is complicated
ME: as how?
SEGE: for her to feel that way, chating with you in
open and expressing her mind without any fear of been
caught, then it is clear that she is no longer on a
revenge mission.
ME: I don’t understand.
SEGE: ok let me clarify it to you. Did she threatened
you of recent?
ME: no
SEGE: did she requested any money or materials from
you of recent?
ME: No.
SEGE: then its clear that revenge mission had turned
to a love quest, and what she felt was normal.
ME: normal as how?
SEGE: let me tell you, if you see an ex whom you still
have feelings for, having s£x with another guy, you will
definitely feel jealous.
ME: na lie.
SEGE: my guy, I dey tell you. Its a thing of the heart.
So, for her to still feel that way, then its obvious and
glaring that she still feels for you.
ME: but I don’t feel anything for her na.
SEGE: onihaxy!!!!!!, you can lie ooo
ME: I’m serious segun
SEGE: wait, ever since I know you. You had dated like
3 girls before you met bimpe isn’t it?
ME: yes. And how does that connect to the issue on
ground?
SEGE: onihaxy wait, after this same adebimpe, you
have dated like 3 or 4 girls too isn’t it?
ME: something like that.
SEGE: how come that among all the 7 exs you had, its
only bimpe you keep flashing back to?.
ME: things just happen jaree.
SEGE: onihaxy, things don’t just happen that way, after
kemi, lolade, janet and joys’ break-ups, I never heard
anything about them or hear their names again. But
two months will never pass by without hearing the
name bimpe. Onihaxy. You sef get feelings for her.
ME: segun, that’s not what I called you for, please
bring up a solution to my predicament before I fall into
another trouble.
SEGE: the solution is simple if only you can do it.
ME: ok, I’m listening.
SEGE: first one is to stay away completely from bimpe,
don’t visit her house again, don’t pick her calls, don’t
call her, don’t reply her texts. If the eye contacts and
communication is broken, the feelings will eventually
fade away.
ME: that will be difficult. You know betty lives there,
and also, she had always wanted bimpe and I to settle
our fake fight. Infact, any time I call her or she calls
me, she would give the phone to bimpe for me to
speak with her. And if I don’t visit there again, betty
won’t be happy with me, and she might be suspecting
me or be thinking maybe I don’t love her anymore.
SEGE: ok, here is another alternative, you should tell
betty maturely that bimpe is your ex. Though she might
not find it easy oooo. But I think if bimpe is aware that
betty knows her past moments with you, she will adjust
so as not to Bleep up.
ME: hmmmmm.
SEGE: but the danger in it is that, betty might not
forgive you for hiding things from her before now,, she
might not trust you again, and remember she is
travelling out of the country for her masters? And her
brother also travels every weekend?
ME: yes
SEGE: my guy, there is a higher probability that her
mind will not be at rest every weekend. And remember,
she once saw a text on your phone as you told me?
ME: yes.
SEGE: and you said bimpe had been acting cold
anytime you and betty are together?
ME: yes.
SEGE: my brother, betty is too smart from my point of
view, she will definitely calculate that you guys still
have something burning within,so its either she accept
you or end the relationship, cos she might not buy the
idea that you once slept with her brother’s wife.
ME: segun. That one is too difficult, I don’t think I can
tell betty about what transpired between bimpe and I in
the past.
SEGE: ok, here is the third alternative. Break up with
betty, forget about the henry’s family and move on.
Because if you still continue this way. The whole
secret will still be eventually blown out in open, its just
a matter of time. And by then, it might be too late to
put things back together.
ME: segun, that one too is difficult. You know betty is
my benefactor and helper. She so much love me and I
love her too. I can’t break up with betty, lailai!!!!,
nothing on this earth can make me leave betty.
SEGE: my friend, you are standing on the valley of
decision. So make your choice.